There is no fixed amount of mehir (also known as mahr) that applies to everyone. The amount should be determined by taking into account the couple's financial situation, the preferred type of mehir, the timing of payment, and the mutual agreement of both parties.
While mehir is a financial right belonging to the woman, it is important that the amount be realistic and payable. A mehir that exceeds the parties' current income and future ability to pay can turn into a debt that is difficult to fulfill. On the other hand, a very low, symbolic amount may not adequately serve mehir's purpose of providing financial security.
The following points can be considered when determining the mehir:
- The man's current income, savings, and regular expenses
- Whether the mehir will be paid promptly or deferred
- Whether payment will be made in a lump sum or in installments
- Whether it will be set in money, gold, silver, or another asset
- Whether the chosen value will hold up over time
- The woman's needs and the couple's shared financial plan
For example, if the mehir is set in gold, simply writing “gold” is not enough. The grams, type, or number of gold pieces should be clearly specified. If it is set in money, the amount and currency should be written down; if payment will be deferred, the date and installment plan should be made clear.
When determining the mehir amount, it is healthier for couples to assess their own financial circumstances rather than directly copying examples from those around them. The goal is not to put either party in a difficult position, but to create a fulfillable obligation that protects the woman's rights.
MehirApp helps couples set prompt and deferred mehir amounts separately, create a payment plan, record payments made, and track the remaining mehir amount.
Set your mehir amount according to your financial circumstances, create the payment plan together, and track the process with MehirApp.